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Chapter 2 Men Are Sensitive OK, here we go, Men are the most sensitive creatures on this planet! Yup, it’s true, ok you can stop laughing now! I guess what I should have said is men are the most sensitive creatures on this planet when it comes to what other men and women think about them and their masculinity. As you already know men start out as little boys. As they grow they are constantly picking up traits of both mom and dad and trying to figure out who they are. Subconsciously they are preparing for who they will become in the future. As they start to become this gradually, there are people who will start to make him feel insecure about traits that he has picked up from mom. Example: Josh is 9 years old and his mom loves to hug him. And Josh loves to be hugged because it makes him feel good. So it must make other people feel good too. So at the age of 9 years old he grabs onto one of his buddies on the playground and gives him a big loving hug. Well that is just not right to the other boys, so therefore the other boys chastise him and make him feel bad about the person he is becoming. Later at home, with a wounded heart, he is being consoled by his mother. She is holding this very confused little boy when dad walks in and calls him a sissy or a mama’s boy for needing to be comforted. So in his little mind, with his own reasoning he changes a very beautiful trait about himself. He figures out that being affectionate will only get him treated poorly. Soon, he is reprogrammed and you would never know that this affectionate little boy who just wanted to make people feel good ever existed. He completely erased his need to be affectionate or receive affection. Can you imagine how happy Josh could have been with his future wife if society would have just allowed him to give love and feel love. Society sets the rules for how men should be. It is unfortunate that moms and dads follow these pathetic rules. I have a 11 year old nephew named Zachary. His parents do not follow these rules. Zach loves sports and he is as boy as a boy can be. He still hugs me and tells me he loves me. He is going to go places just being the wonderful person that he is. He has the support of two loving parents that respect the individuality of their three children. If at the age of 11 years old he will still cuddle with me during a game, I know he is going to be a warm and loving man to some lucky woman someday. Zach is lucky to have the parents that just let him feel love and give love and cry when life hurts. He is a blessed little boy. I hope many of you ladies will allow the same blessing for your little boy. So the question is; why are most men not very affectionate? The answer lies with Josh. Society’s standards for what constitutes a man start as a young boy. And society says that men do not cry or show to much emotion or affection. If we do than we must be a homosexual or weak. And as I said; men are sensitive, to sensitive to be labeled. Can we change him back? Let's read on to find out how. |